i see so many of my girlfriends stuck in the same position lately. they like a guy who they think likes them, and the guy really acts like he likes them....but the relationship doesn't go anywhere. it's like they're standing still while everything is moving a hundred miles an hour around them.
really...that feeling sucks.
i think every girl has been in that unbearably frustrating situation. where you constantly second guess yourself and him. you feel like you have control but the situation is actually completely out of your hands. you lie awake at night wondering why he's not calling you, if he is thinking about you right now like you are thinking about him, if he likes you at all or if it's just a hookup, and on and on it goes in an endless circle in your head until you want to scream with frustration.
it's awful because we are programmed as girls to not be able to get over a situation like that. we need a resolution and when guys don't give us this resolution, they put us in a rut. a rut so deep that it's a long, hard, and backsliding climb out. it's painful, erodes at our self-esteem, and makes us vulnerable to the exact same situation that we just extracted ourselves from. so really, guys are perpetuating a vicious cycle.
i see this...
and i am terrified to let myself become open again.
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